Friday, September 18, 2009

It was almost a perfect day.

Since I am appreciating the extraordinary in the ordinary - yesterday was almost perfect.
I was juggling preparations for two different activities.
Both fun events.

I had to run over to pick up Keith's prescription that he renews every month clear across the valley because he thinks its funny that the pharmacist's wife looks like Suzanne Somers. She does not. Plus he always sends me so why does he care? Walgreens is 3/10's of a mile from our door and it's a drive-thru! I might grumble about that but I actually love long drives in my car because thats when I get to listen to my books on tape or zone out or chat it up on the phone guilt free.
Perfect

Fun deserts and bacon wrapped smokies preparation filled the rest of my morning. The doors were all open to air the house out with the nice not too hot late summer air.
I had music blasting and I was getting tons done.
Perfect

7 little Primary girls coming over to swim and and review their Faith in God book. They are so cute. Funny stories and adventures to share about their day. Load of giggles and more energy than I have seen in weeks. Oh if I could just bottle some of it. There was one minor injury but she survived so I will say that it was nearly Perfect.



We had our annual Paloma Estates Potluck and Homeowners Re-Elections Picnic. We have lived in our home for 8 years. This is the 1st meeting we have ever attended. It was a crackup to see how many people "welcomed" us to the neighborhood. Note to self-be friendlier to neighbors and consider attending a few of the annual picnics. It was great fun and there was a plethera of people there. All kinds. I like those kinds. King Keith was elected to Homeowners President unanimously. All Hail to the King. Should be interesting!
But overall a Perfect evening.

We got home and enjoyed discussing our perfectly ordinary day. Grateful for the simplicity and the gift of sweet neighbors and darling 8 year old girls. We had a nice call from Alec & Tiff and it was (see it coming now) perfect.

Then some less than perfect realizations and news came in.
Bummer.
I'm not happy about it.
Not at All.

I realized that 18 years ago this day my sweet sister, Jilleen had left this earth.
Wow. I've missed her. Her daughters have missed her.
She was the oldest daughter in our family.
Cancer claimed her sweet life when she was a wise-crackin, barrel ropin', loving mother of 4.
She was barely in her forties when this battle began.
It was a hard fought battle.
But this cancer was way bigger and badder than she was.


What really socked the perfect right out of this almost perfect day
was the phone call from my other sister, Christine.
Who I call Sissy. I don't know why. I just always have.
She was mad. Spitting mad.
She's had to face the battle with this ugly desease more than once
and come out weary and scarred but alive and healthy and a survivor.
But it is back.
Her Radiologists words,
"It's back. It's Big. It's bad. We got to get it out now!"




Kind of takes the perfect out of the day.
But we press forward. We know we can see these things through.
We have the greatest weapon that cannot be beat.
We have faith in the unknown lessons and outcome.
That come what may will be good. Will be better for us.
That He that is all knowing and perfect is leading this battle.

What an extraordinary day!

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Alyssa is like a refreshing Sonic Diet Sprite with extra ice and a splash of cranberry!



How is it that my beautiful niece Alyssa can take a normal weekend and make it seem extraordinary? I've been thinking alot about her lately and bragging alot about her lately. Why Alyssa? Because she tells me about her weekend!! Well she doesn't exactly tell ME about her weekend but she writes about it on her blog here. She is consistent. She keeps her blog updated even when nothing extraordinary has happened. I love it. I learn new things about her all the time. I get to nose into her bizzness a little bit. And (I know you are not supposed to start a sentence with an and but I do anyway)because I read this stuff and then I feel like we have chatted and
I'm a little bit closer to her.

I love my family and friends blogs.
It makes me feel closer to them.
That darn Facebook has made me lazy, lazy, lazy.

I think if I write on my blog it has to be clever or wise or witty. But that is not true. The truth is that our normal everyday life is extraordinary to those that don't get to visit with us everyday.

So kuddos to you Lyssy girl!


You have inspired me.

Monday, August 10, 2009

Jake? Jake who?


It's been a while since I've done a Jake update. Do I need to remind you that I think he is adorable, smart, funny, witty, honorable, loyal.....what? Oh I already told you that 149,642,782 times? Okay fine. I still think it though :)

He is on his 3rd change (non-change?) in Guayaquil and wishes he could stay there the rest of his time. He loves being a Zone Leader. He's been blessed with excellent health and always has a joyful countenance. That boy was born with a joyous heart and a beautiful smile. He continues to find the good in pretty much everyone he meets and each situation he finds himself in. Every challenge is an adventure in his eyes!

Here is a little from todays letter and a couple of recent photos.

Monday night we found an investigator. He was sitting in front of his house, and smoking a cig. We didn't notice the cigarette until we already had gotten close to him. He saw us and then chuckled. He said... "Angels fallen from heaven.... You guys come right when you are needed.." Apparently he was just sitting out feeling sad, and he said he was praying in his heart that something would happen to cheer him up. We went and taught him a good lesson. We got to teach a few other times in the week, and the coolest lesson was last night. He told us that he had a goal. His goal is to "help himself" so that he can "help others". He said it with such sincerity that i knew he meant it. So he is stud!! I am happy with this week! It started out sketchy... Not very many lessons but we ended on a good positive note, and my companion and I are all jacked up for this week!





I love him.

Friday, August 7, 2009

GBP '09

I wasn't sure if it would even happen.
Gram's Beach Party 2009 had lots of obstacles this year. But in true Grammy fashion....it was a huge success with tons of memories and adventures packed into 4 short days. We missed Gram so much. But we felt her presence and we know she would have loved every moment of it. Even in Mexico. Teehee. Inside joke. She and my dad really taught us how to embrace and love our family. To cherish our relationships and to truly enjoy each other.

The party was very small in numbers. We are used to having our family of 25-50 people. This year only 11. But our small numbers didn't stop us from having huge amounts of laughter and fun! To the rest of the family....you missed out!

The Mexico house is awesome and it was great to be all in one place. Wade and Carolyn are wonderful hosts.
We spent 3 nights at the Mexico House and two days in Oceanside.
Hannah and Tiffany trying their jumps
What a beautiful pair
Where are my other boys? We missed King Keith and Jake sooooooo much!
More proof that it's time for Jake to get home. My little family photos need more people :)
The cheesiest!



Their bad.
That's my bro-bro!
Dixon and Shay!
NOT his first kiss. Can't believe he waited a year to tell us.
True Beauties
Taco stands. It's an adventure. Woof! Woof!
The GBP mandatory daily activity.
Hannah, Dixon & Jessica
Lovely Lyssy
Is Alec peeking at Chase's cards?
Gettin' the party started!
We be Thrillin'
Our MJ tribute.
I was definately peeking. Nah...just grabbing some snuggles from Hannah.
Boy oh boy do I love these crazy people.

Hi Gram!


Please take note of Chase's Wild Cherry Pepsi anti Yoga position.
What an adorable twosome. Wouldn't twins be a perfect addition?
More zen.
Seagulls, dolphins and Cranes?!
Backseat Beauties!
Aye! Caliente!
I love this kid!
10th time for me and 3rd time for Alec. Wicked!
Wicked. A unexpected surprise.

There are some traditions that carry on though thick and thin. I am guilty myself of losing a little faith that Gram's Beach Party could survive the loss of Gram. I am so grateful that we were able to carry on our family trip. I hope it will rebuild again each year so that we can all be there. I missed Keith being there. I missed Jake and hope he never misses again. I missed each and every member of our family. Especially Grammy. I missed her the most. But there is something that every member of this family has been told by her at one time or another.

"Go. Have an adventure!"

Monday, July 13, 2009

The Babies have Hatched!

I've been like a momma bird watching her nest the last few days:) I knew it had to be close.
MommyBird has been a little extra antsy and hanging around more. I'm sure it couldn't possibly be because this human mommy (me) keeps hanging around her nest!


I kept checking out the window today for a moment when MommyBird was gone and made my move.
These photos aren't National Geographic perfect but they capture more than I have ever witnessed in person.
I literally gasped when I realized the eggs had started hatching. That there was a baby bird where a little egg had been laying all these weeks.
I marveled at their newness.
Their tinyness.
Their sweet little beaks and their newborn beauty.
The 2nd one is not even all the way out of it's egg here.
Like all newborns, the little baby is already looking for MommyBird for some food.
If only......I know I know.......I can't feed the baby hummingbird. But.
I would if I could.
You can sort of see the 2nd one trying to finish breaking out of it's egg lower in the nest in this photo.
I wish you could zoom in and see this photo up close. The actual photo is a much better view than my little blog can show you!
MommyBird is back and she is guarding the nest like a hawk.
I respect that.
I'll let the little family get to know each other better.
Snuggle a little :)
Congratulations MommyBird!
Job well done!

Seriously though. I thanked Heavenly Father for the chance to witness this little miracle. To see them literally as they broke free from their eggs and came into this world.

Can you all imagine the sap I am going to be when I have a grandbaby?
I.can't.even.imagine.

I'm such a lucky chick!

My Mother Taught me to Share.


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Wednesday, July 8, 2009

God's tiny miracles coming soon!

I found this little treasure a couple weeks ago.  What a beautiful little nursery this mommy has made for her future little ones.  I'm absolutely positive she would prefer me to keep my big ugly camera lens away from her precious cargo.  But to be able to witness one of God's quiet miracles up close is just too hard to resist!  









I'll keep you posted!